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Friday, January 28, 2011

My Isuzu lives better than 640,000,000 people on this Earth.

I often complain about what I don't have; whether I do it out loud or quietly inside my head. Working at a private school, I am surrounded by wealth. I see some people's cars whose price tag is more than my mortgage. I see commercials on TV that advertise 80 inch flat screen TV's, all the while squinting at my tiny set that actually still uses a picture tube and weighs more than most large appliances. It is so easy to be dissatisfied.

Then my pastor gave me a statistic that put things into perspective. 640,000,000 people on this Earth live without adequate shelter. He said, "most of your CARS have better houses than over half of a billion people". And he is right! i have a two car garage. It has doors, windows, and it is even heated and cooled in the summer. It stays dry in the rain, and keeps out bugs and animals (though we do get those creepy cave cricket things, but fortunately, my cat is a good hunter).

He also said that some in the audience might not be able to even park their cars in their garage because they had too much stuff packed into them. How true this is. And how sad.

We are a people of excess. We usually have two of everything (cars, refrigerators, freezers, MULTIPLE tv's, etc) yet 80% OF PEOPLE ON THIS EARTH LIVE ON LESS THAN $10 A DAY!

It's called perspective, people. And I need a good dose of it. I am blessed beyond most humans dreams.

Saturday, January 15, 2011

It's 2:00 am... do you know where your Charizard is?

It's 2:00 am.  Apparently, as one creeps towards "middle age" (and the dreaded FOUR-OH) sleep can be a somewhat elusive creature.  So, on those nights where one regrets drinking caffeinated beverages after the hour of 5:00 pm, I find myself here at the computer with a brain full of thoughts.

The pensée du moment (my mother would be proud) is that of my son.  I had one of "those" moments tonight.  My son was talking to me about his favorite passion; Pokemon video games.  All I know about them, is apparently you have to catch them all, or something bad will happen... As I was typing on my computer, I was doing the usual "uh-huh" and "oh really" responses as he was sharing that his recently aquired "Charizard Pokemon eventually will evolve into Charmeleon" (thanks James Logan). Then I stopped.  And I looked at him.  He continued to talk, not noticing a change in my disposition.  I just studied him.  Watching his facial expressions, his body language, how he reminds me of his mother every time I look at him.  And I realized, how BLESSED I am to be a father.  To have a healthy son, who wants to share his passion with me, even if I don't understand a word of what he is saying, because he loves me.  And oh, how I love him as well.  As I look closer, I realize he is not the 3 year old toddler, or  a 6 year old kindergartner anymore, but a 10 year old young man who, for just a few more years, I will be able help mold and shape into the man he will become.  As parents, there is such a small window where we truly get to impact our children, before peers and other outside influences take over.  And I don't want to miss that.


Facebook can wait.  So can watching Mythbusters or even writing a blog.  The superficial things that we as parents so easily get caught up into, which distract us from truly engaging in heart felt conversations with our kids, need to be regulated into the place where they belong.  And while I won't be going out to research which "rare candy will help level up Pichu", I sure am going to treasure the moments and passions that he chooses to share with me.  Because before I know it, the things that he will be chasing won't be harmless video game creatures, but things that can cause much more impact on his life.  And if I want to be able to speak into his life then, I sure need to listen to his life now.



Sunday, January 9, 2011

Orang-orang dari Malaysia membaca blog saya!

Well, I sure hope that Google translator works correctly, and I haven't just offended the people from Malaysia...  In English, this hopefully translates to "People from Malaysia are reading my blog!" (or something to that effect)

When I started blogging, one of the jokes in our family was that no one would read the blog.  Being a new source of media for me, I really hadn't done any blogging, or kept track of anyone's blogs either.  Through the help of Dave Parker, I was able to get this started.

Honestly, it began as a modern day "journal" for me to list my thoughts on our new venture into missions.  I figured, even if no one read it, it would allow me to look back through this journey and reflect on where we came from.

I then added the "pageview" gadget to the blog, and was really encouraged to see that people were actually reading it (or my parents were hitting the "refresh" button 400+ times!).  I also saw the "stats" link on my homepage, and wondered what that meant.  So, I clicked it.  And I was astounded.  Not only were people from America reading the blog, but Columbia, the UK, Germany, India, Croatia, Spain, Canada, and Brazil!  Now, I understand that these people might not read the entire blog, or do much more than browse through it, but on the other hand, they very well may actually read it.  And I was so encouraged.  Because as I sit in front of my fire (actually, it is an electric heater that kind of looks like a fireplace...) here in Knoxville TN, the words are going out around the world.  Rather frightening, in a manner of thinking.  But also powerful.

When I read in Revelations about the whole world hearing about the words of Christ before he would come back, I often wondered how that would come into being.  And I believe that the modern media is really helping that come to fruition.  And I hope to be one of the vessels that he uses to do it.

So, to all of the readers out there, I say this:
Terima kasih!
Gracias!
Obrigado!
Vielen Dank!
Hvala vam što ste!
शुक्रिया!
Thank you!  

Sunday, January 2, 2011

"I don't want to know what you had for lunch!"

Apparently, my parents aren't too hot about Facebook.  They jokingly quip that they frankly don't care about what people eat, or where they are headed, and they really don't understand what "poking" means.  And I get that.  But they are soon realizing that they can keep up a whole lot better with their grandchildren by looking at their statuses, then by waiting to hear news in person or by phone (do people even use a phone to make calls anymore, anyway?). 

But I submit that while Facebook definitely has the potential for "evil", it also has the ability for good!   Besides keeping up with current friends, I so enjoy watching what life is bringing to so many of my former friends and or students and players.  While you need to be careful what you post, it can be used as an almost instantaneous prayer chain.  School closings are posted on Facebook even before the news has broadcast on the TV!  Have an event?  Instead of sending out "snail mail" invitations, invite everyone and get almost immediate RSVP's.

So, why do I talk about Facebook on a mission blog?  God has shown that He can use modern social media to benefit His kingdom if He chooses.    We have been so blessed by messages and encouragement we have received through this electronic media.  People we haven't talked to in over 20 years, sending us support, prayer and kind words.  I get to talk to friends that we met halfway around the world, and know that they struggle with the same things we do, but as brothers and sisters in Christ, we are there for each other!  I get to keep in touch with the 30+ members of the Brazil tour 2010 and see that they are as crazy now as they were last summer!

And yes, I even get to know what most of you had for lunch.  And I'm ok with that!